Dating Tips for Men

Sorry about my lack of updating.  I will be posting again soon.  Thank you for your patience.

The next post will be about the first kiss.  Not the first smooch...just the first kiss.  It's something you look forward to and will either be everything you hoped it would be, or you'll wish you could pull a Marty McFly and go back in time :)  Either way, sometimes you men just need a clue as to when, where, and how this anticipated event should go down.  mmmmwwwwaaaaahhhh!

Sometimes it's hard to be the man that always has the plan.  Well this post will be a little cheat sheet on ideas of what to do and where to go on a date.  It can be for the 1st, 2nd, 3rd... dates.  It's not necessarily that you should do exactly what's on the list, but help show you the path to creative ideas for having a fun, unique date.  This will lead her to finding you to be a fun and unique guy and falling madly in love with you and running away with you to fulfill your every dream and fantasy.  Wellll...maybe not that extreme...in every case, but it will definitely score you some brownie points that always tend to come in handy later :)  Come on fellas, it's time to get a little more creative then just a nice dinner with good convo (sometimes not even that :) ). I am going to reiterate something I briefly mentioned in "First Step".  If you remember, I spoke about how different dates will bring out different bonding emotions between you two....

Due to a special request this next lesson is going to actual be a variety of date ideas.  A dear girlfriend of mine gave me the suggestion to do a lesson on helping men think of unique date ideas.  She, although happily married now, had quite a few interesting dates in her day (probably due to the fact that she is a great gal...and smokin' hot :) ).  She even mentioned that sometimes she would forget the guy but remembered what an amazing date it was which is what helps her remember the guy.  Hopefully none of them will see this and damage their ego :)  So stay tuned gentlemen for your next dating tips advice.

The first date is crucial to show her that chivalry is not dead nor is it comatose.  No, this does not mean you need to rescue her from the fire breathing dragon on your white stallion, but it does mean that you will open the door for her, pull the chair out, and lend her your coat if it's cold.  There is nothing wrong with being a complete gentleman.  These days women don't get the proper treatment often enough.  Be the one to prove to her that you are the man and you will treat her like the lady she is.  With that said... "A gentleman never leaves a lady waiting", aka: be on time!  There's a good possibility she may not be ready (some women tend to run late from spending too much time getting all dolled up for her "hot date"...or so I've heard {I, on the other hand am ALWAYS on time ;) }, but heaven forbid you are late, it will definitely not be a good way to start out your date (this is along the lines of "do as I say and not as I do...

Be the man with a plan!  A woman loves a man that shows the initiative to take charge.  Even a woman that can be dominant still likes to see the man be a "man".  She does not want to be picked up for a date and then be asked "so what do you feel like eating?" or "know of any good restaurants?".  Know exactly where you are going to take her and know exactly what your plans will be for after the meal portion of the date.  (note: dates don't always have to consist of dinner and after dinner event.  Some of the best dates are the ones that are very creative and catch her completely off guard...in a good way.)  One thing that is an absolute must is that you pay.  You asked her out.  So no "going dutch" or "split this" or "I'll get the tickets and you get the drinks".  It is custom that the man pay.  Don't get all women's rights on a first date just because it suits your wallet.  Before you even plan the date, talk t...

It's known that men are more visual while women are more mental/emotional. So this gives good looking guys a chance to prove they're more than just "another pretty face" and the not so good looking guys a way to get with a girl that would otherwise be "out of [his] league".  Have you ever thought to yourself "dude, this chic is so into me!" and then she gives you the wrong number or pulls the "I have a boyfriend" line.  In a psychology study, it showed that most men thought women were more into them then what they really were.  The men did not focus on the body language, but more on the appearance of her face and clothing and the body language they wanted to see.  This mistake that many men make then leads to various measures of sexual aggression.   This can be simply solved...focus on a woman's emotional interest to give you the hint (either good or bad) she is subtly conferring to you...without saying it out loud.  You want to make ...