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Word to Wise Fellas

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Men...you have no idea how often your actions affect women either positively or negatively.  Try to keep it on the positive side.  If you know what you are going to say or do will hurt her, then don't do it.  The words or actions may last but a moment, but the aftermath will be with her for years to come. 

No misses on those yummy kisses please

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That always present elephant in the room called the anticipation of the first kiss.  It's like Christmas morning for adults.  It's going to go either one of two ways.  Really amazing, like getting that new Nintendo set and games you've been dreaming about.  Or blah, like the ugly jammy set your grandma knit you and you still have to wear it for a while to not hurt her feelings.  You have now officially lost interest, but not all interest.  I mean, there was some spark there pre-kiss right?   There is hope.  Sometimes first kisses just don't go so great.  People have different styles, different techniques, different timing.  There's all sorts of things that can lead to a bad first kiss.  But I'm here to help you with that.   The thing about the first kiss is that you want to make sure she remembers it…preferably in a good way...and not the way where she tells it to all her girlfriends when they need a good laugh (keep in mind, she will then proceed to pull up

Questions to Suggestions….

If any of you have any questions or suggestions or just looking for some insight please feel free to contact me.  I am here to help out men that are having difficulty in the dating world.  It's not always easy, but the more you know the better off you will be.  Reading the blogs will help, but if you still have concerns or questions please feel free to contact me as I would love to help provide a female's perspective. You can contact me through my blog profile or just email me directly at stylemeswan3@hotmail.com. I am just starting to offer private coaching lessons as well.  How it would go is we would do skype or facetime or just a phone call.  They would be 30 minutes and you can ask any questions you'd like.  I'd have access to your profile so as to give feedback and help you make it the best it can be so your chances of the ladies wanting you will be much higher.  It's best to get feedback from a female since that is what you are looking to reel in.  I have h

Will update soon

Sorry about my lack of updating.  I will be posting again soon.  Thank you for your patience.

The first kiss...when, where, how, ....

The next post will be about the first kiss.  Not the first smooch...just the first kiss.  It's something you look forward to and will either be everything you hoped it would be, or you'll wish you could pull a Marty McFly and go back in time :)  Either way, sometimes you men just need a clue as to when, where, and how this anticipated event should go down.  mmmmwwwwaaaaahhhh!

What to do? What to do?

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Sometimes it's hard to be the man that always has the plan.  Well this post will be a little cheat sheet on ideas of what to do and where to go on a date.  It can be for the 1st, 2nd, 3rd... dates.  It's not necessarily that you should do exactly what's on the list, but help show you the path to creative ideas for having a fun, unique date.  This will lead her to finding you to be a fun and unique guy and falling madly in love with you and running away with you to fulfill your every dream and fantasy.  Wellll...maybe not that extreme...in every case, but it will definitely score you some brownie points that always tend to come in handy later :)  Come on fellas, it's time to get a little more creative then just a nice dinner with good convo (sometimes not even that :) ). I am going to reiterate something I briefly mentioned in "First Step".  If you remember, I spoke about how different dates will bring out different bonding emotions between you two.  It'
Due to a special request this next lesson is going to actual be a variety of date ideas.  A dear girlfriend of mine gave me the suggestion to do a lesson on helping men think of unique date ideas.  She, although happily married now, had quite a few interesting dates in her day (probably due to the fact that she is a great gal...and smokin' hot :) ).  She even mentioned that sometimes she would forget the guy but remembered what an amazing date it was which is what helps her remember the guy.  Hopefully none of them will see this and damage their ego :)  So stay tuned gentlemen for your next dating tips advice.